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Book three

The Nice Guy Trap

Habits That Quietly Kill Attraction

Being kind isn't the problem. Hiding your interest, agreeing with everything and always being available is. This book helps you stay kind while becoming honest, clear and self-respecting.

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Read this if you keep ending up as "just a friend", over-text, or find yourself saying yes to everything to be liked.

What's inside

Six chapters. Read one at a time; every chapter ends with a short practice you can do this week.

  1. 1The "friend zone," explainedWhy it happens, and the part of it that is in your hands.
  2. 2Seeking approval and over-textingRecognising approval-seeking habits and what to do instead.
  3. 3Over-investing too earlyMatching her interest instead of running ahead of it.
  4. 4Boundaries and self-respectSaying what you want and what you don't, kindly and clearly.
  5. 5What to do when she goes coldCalm next steps when interest drops, without chasing.
  6. 6Resetting a flat dateHow to bring energy back to a date that has gone quiet.

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The Nice Guy Trap: Chapter opener
Chapter opener
The Nice Guy Trap: Before & after messages
Before & after messages

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